Stop Being Rude

I can’t remember the last time I felt as infuriated by another person. Or in this case two people—two men. I’m 99% sure that at least one of them was a pastor. And please know I have a huge respect for pastors, being married to one myself. I think pastors are some of the best […]

When You Don’t Feel In Love

My husband and I were sitting on our front porch enjoying breakfast. Across the street was a couple walking their dog together. Calm. Beautiful morning. We sipped our coffee as we talked. Then, suddenly the couple across the street started arguing. Did they see us across the street from them? Hadn’t they noticed we could […]

In Light of the Recent Suicide of a Megachurch Pastor:The Inside Scoop On Being Married to a Pastor

This past week the suicide of a 30 year old megachurch pastor made national news. National news? Devastating news. Heartbreaking news. Tragic news. He left behind a gorgeous wife, three beautiful little boys, and a grieving congregation who loved him. What could cause a young man who seemed to have it all to take his […]

Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, Marriage Principle

I think I ate chicken! Okay, to most this is no big deal, BUT to me I can make it a huge deal. I haven’t eaten chicken for over 10 years. I’m a vegetarian who eats fish, which is technically a pescatarian. No beef. No rooster. No cow. No lamb. And definitely NO chicken. Until, […]

How to Fall In Love Over and Over

I’ve had the words of Jesus on my mind this week: “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine , you did for me’”(Matt. 25:40). Who are the least of these? Certainly our husband or wife would come within this […]

I Love You

As I sit here on this day, so different from what this day was 36 years ago. For on that day I said yes to just about the most important decision of my life. I had no idea what was in store. The ups the downs, the joys the sorrows, but through it all, today, […]

Crying During Date Night

I love date night. It’s a time with my husband I always look forward to. On this particular date we headed to one of our favorite romantic spots. As we entered the piano music was permeating the room and the lights were low. If my makeup smears nobody notices. Just my kind of place. The […]

How a Husband Can Win at Marriage

Recently I received a comment that I frequently write about how women need to be a certain way for their husbands but lack posts how men can up their husband game. My paraphrase by the way. And yes, that is very true, I do tend to write more for ladies, being one myself. But not […]

5 Points to a Hero Husband

As I sit outside of our hotel room—while away with my husband—I can hear the family sharing a patio with us. Their door is open and I can’t help but hear their words. I am ever compelled to write. It is not often you get to peek in on other families like a fly on […]

10 Relationship Tips to Get the Love You Crave

Marriages have become disposable. People get married with a seeming attitude of, If it doesn’t work out, then I can just get divorced. Confession time: I was one of those people. When I got married I openly verbalized that “if it doesn’t work out, then I can just get divorced.” Yes, I really said that! […]

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