How to Get Flowers

“I got flowers!” she announced. Wait. Let me back it up. My husband has been undergoing physical therapy to recover from his knee replacement surgeries. Yes, you read that right, surgeriessss with an s, both knees got replaced. Mike told his therapist, Roxy (not her real name) that his wife (me) had a new book […]

Distressed Fiancé

Hi Lucille, I wanted to reach out and see if you could help me with something I am going through. I’m kind of out of things to turn to so here I am.  My fiancé and I are getting married in nine months. Today, it seems so far away. My fiancé goes to school three […]

Is It Codependency?

On this night, the night before my husband returns to work after his sabbatical, I am overcome with incredible grabbling sadness. I have so enjoyed having him around. The term all good things come to an end is so very real for me at this moment. I wish I could say this time as been […]

“Tips” for Him: What Men Want and What She Wants You to Know

Have you ever wondered, What is she really thinking? Have you ever felt confused about your fun time? Reading this will give you a window into things many women are hesitant to say to their men. If nothing else, perhaps this will open dialog between you and your beloved, enhancing adult nap time. As you […]

Got Intimacy?

“Above all, keep fervent in your love for one another, because love covers a multitude of sins.” 1 Peter 4:8 (NASB) Years ago my husband decided to let his hair grow long. But he didn’t just let it grow long. He had a mullet! I personally have nothing against men with long hair, but in terms of […]

But I Hate My Body 2.0

“What is the perfect body, anyway? I don’t know, but I know it’s not mine!” That’s a quote from my devotion on Encouragement for Today, Proverbs 31 Ministries. It is so easy to find the flaws in our figures. Stop looking for the flaws and start looking for what’s beautiful and lovely. I know that […]

Pancakes: The Recipe

When people hear the title of my book, “The Intimacy You Crave: Straight Talk about Sex and Pancakes” I’ll often hear a chuckle with obvious puzzlement. I can see their brain trying to process what pancakes and sex have in common. The most often question I get is some form of What do pancakes have […]

Dating Again

It was Date Night, y’all! I love Date Night. There is this romantic place my husband and I have found where there’s dark lighting, good food, cozy seating, and a piano player. Yes! A piano player always seems to play the perfect date songs. And a huge added bonus—considering the dark setting and ambiance with […]

Top Five of the Top Ten Hindrances to Intimacy – Note: This is rated PG

(Taken From the book, “The Intimacy You Crave: Straight Talk about Sex and Pancakes) If you have any struggle with intimacy know you are not unique, we all have hindrances, the struggle is real. Let’s get right to it! Here’s five of the ten listed in the book: 1. Body Image After my kids were […]

3 Points to a Lasting Marriage

I’m sitting in the waiting area while my husband undergoes Physical Therapy. When his physical therapist came to call him in for his therapy session you would have thought two old friends were greeting each other. My husband seems to make friends wherever he goes. Always the model student in all situations. Watching him never […]

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