When I met my husband there were no sparks, no electricity, and definitely no urgency to pursue a relationship. And the feeling was mutual, on that we agreed. Even though neither of us had a huge interest in one another, he asked me on a date anyway. Even though I didn’t find him captivating, I […]
I was listening to two men talk. Neither of them knew I was listening in. It was during a marriage conference so there were many couples present and I listened to these two men talking, both of whom I had gotten the pleasure of getting to know. Both men were delightful with beautifully natured wives, […]
Marriage is under attack today. But we can fight against this attack. Have you ever seen tree roots breaking through cement? Those are some strong roots to break through cement! This can be a picture of a strong marriage breaking through struggle and heartache and life’s challenges, coming out stronger on the other side. What […]
I can’t remember a time I felt more ill. But let me back up just a bit with the story. It was Friday night just a few weeks ago and after having dinner (most want to know what I ate: it was a salad) I started feeling sick. Like I was going to throw up […]
Let’s talk about sex. Sometimes we are afraid to mention such things but God created sex and it’s okay to talk about it. That’s what this podcast with Dr. Jim Burn is all about and you might be surprised by what we say. Intimacy is important for all of us and I’m not just talking […]
“I want you to listen to this song,” my husband said, “if I had to pick a wedding song today, this would be it.” On our wedding day we danced to “our song.” It was in the 80s and very popular, “Endless Love” by Lionel Richie. It was perfect. It has always been our perfect […]
I feel like I’ve been given a second chance at life. Not that my life was bad before, on the contrary, I was quite happy with my life, but when your husband has a major heart attack while you’re holding his hand, it changes things. It changed my perspective. It changed my outlook on life. […]
It’s a common surprise: parents think that once their children get past the exhausting toddler years and become more independent, life will slow down and the couple will have more time to connect spiritually. For many, the opposite becomes reality. For whatever reason—busyness, tension in the relationship, stress, or another issue—couples can grow apart and […]
Mostly no one gets married thinking about sickness. We take the vow of “In sickness and in health” but let’s be honest, almost no one is thinking about sickness. Oh sure, there might be an occasional cold or flu and maybe they’ll have bouts of allergy attacks but “sickness” real sickness, not likely. Our hopes […]
I feel like my life is over. Over may seem a bit over-the-top but feelings can be over-the-top. Certainly, my life has changed forever and my feelings are strong. Tuesday night Mike woke me up at 3:00 a.m. “Something’s wrong,” he said, “I’m having chest pains…and my arms hurt…and my jaw hurts.” My reply was, […]
